[ and he prefers it that way. yes, yes, phoenix metaphor, yes transformation, but that doesn't beat the pure and simple relationship based on a total lack of constant comparison to a former, lesser, version of yourself.

they are going to just be one person here in a few more posts. also he's not scary she can say stuff. ] Am I? I think that's the first time in the history of the world I've been called a good listener. Must have had something to do with the inability to talk.