[ It definitely seriously helps. He may think it's distracting, but really it's just alerting her to the fact that there is a problem if she hasn't already noticed. It makes her a lot more confident in knowing that if there's a problem, she'll realize it sooner rather than later.

As for that, there's a difference between functioning and living and yeah, exactly, it's blatantly incorrect. She would be very unimpressed with that particular argument. ]

The only things that can't be improved are the things outside your control. Circumstances, surroundings. If you do want to try, obviously I'm willing to help.