[ She really dislikes this entire scenario, basically. She constantly feels like she's overthinking it or underthinking it or not getting it right, and she knows intellectually this is actually going somewhat decently - he doesn't have to accept this suggestion, it's a big and good step just to have him talk to her this openly. Or this close to openly. It's just really hard with this much heavy negativity in the air to feel like she's actually doing well. ]

It's up to you, what you think you can or can't handle. [ A pause of her own, because this really is a drawn out conversation in terms of them needing to stop and think over what they're going to say or consider what was just said. ] I'm going to find a way to help you. As many options as it takes. And one of them will work, and it will get better.