[ There's really nothing I can say to that to make it any more accurate than the way you've already put it. Well done.
And it's okay though, he wants you to waver, particularly now that he's wavering, because he's still undecided about the whole thing and if you change your mind and decide for him it just makes things so much easier. He can be ridiculously juvenile and selfish, but she sounds like she's actually hurt by this - and she probably is, who knows, he can't tell at any given point how much she's picking up on and what actually is directly effecting her. He has his reasons for acting the way that he has been about it, but the longer she sits there, she doesn't even have to talk while she does it, the more and more they start feeling as though they're paling in her more starkly contrasting light. ]
What do you want to talk about? [ Because yes, she's going to have to drag it out of him, little bit by little bit, and he'll start somewhere else if she doesn't specify well enough. Whatever initial acquiescence she gets will be because he knows intellectually that this problem isn't fixing itself, not because emotionally he feels the need to reach out for help. ]
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And it's okay though, he wants you to waver, particularly now that he's wavering, because he's still undecided about the whole thing and if you change your mind and decide for him it just makes things so much easier. He can be ridiculously juvenile and selfish, but she sounds like she's actually hurt by this - and she probably is, who knows, he can't tell at any given point how much she's picking up on and what actually is directly effecting her. He has his reasons for acting the way that he has been about it, but the longer she sits there, she doesn't even have to talk while she does it, the more and more they start feeling as though they're paling in her more starkly contrasting light. ]
What do you want to talk about? [ Because yes, she's going to have to drag it out of him, little bit by little bit, and he'll start somewhere else if she doesn't specify well enough. Whatever initial acquiescence she gets will be because he knows intellectually that this problem isn't fixing itself, not because emotionally he feels the need to reach out for help. ]